“Man’s nature is not essentially evil. Brute nature has been known to yield to the influence of love. You must never despair of human nature.” – Mahatma Gandhi
By nature, we are all friendly. We tend to smile and make friends with strangers. To some, they even welcome them as their roommates. Whether you invest in a Makati condo for rent or real estate property, there are a lot of advantages when we have someone to share our home with. There will be fun and excitement every day. They can also be your life savior when in times you need them.
However, there are just some roommates that are a total opposite of what you have expected them to be. They might be rude, no manners, horrible, discourteous, inconsiderate, insulting or even worse. Well, for some reasons, you will eventually learn their right color on the later part of their stay. For some, having a roommate is a blessing. While for others, they considered it as a nightmare! To avoid ruining your day, here are some ways on how you can prevent such.
Communication is the key
Communication is one of the crucial factors that you should not miss to do. When communicating, it is a two-way process. For instance, you’re going to talk about a particular issue with your roommate, and he listens. Vice versa. Talking about the problem is one of the standard solutions whenever a problem arises. Yes, you might feel awkward about it, but who cares? You both need to solve the problem immediately to avoid making it worse.
If you think that your roommate doesn’t have any plans to talk about the problem with you at all, then you might want to try initiating it first. You might not know, they are just shy to talk to your first. When you both communicate, you will understand what the problem is and why it is a problem. Of course, if you both understand each other, there will be a harmony between the both of you.
There are just times that we sense something that is so off when it comes to our roommate. Later did we know that they are an off-the-record tenant (e.g.,. an inhabitant who has not signed a lease of agreement). With this matter, communication might be useful, but make sure that you include the landlord when you talk about the issue. This matter already involves the landlord, since he/she is the one who will decide who gets in and goes out. Of course, you have the right to know how come they are living with you when he/she is not a legal tenant of the house. You are just concern with your safety.
When this happen, and you want to get rid of your roommate, you have to make sure that there will be a written statement declaring that the roommate arrangement has ended should suffice. If not, then at least, provide your roommate with a deadline for leaving, at least 15-3o days from the date of the notice. Just make sure that the roommate receives the document and understands what he/she is reading.
Settle the problem in court
When talks are already not useful, then seeing them in court might help. Usually, courts are the least one wants to do since it is already a hassle on the part of the complainant, and of course, for your roommate. But if there is a need to settle things once and for all, the court is what you need. You just want to hope that your roommate will take the hint and gracefully exit to avoid inconvenience on both parties.
Usually, the court staff will give you a date and time for an eviction hearing, and you must be prepared for the legal documents that you need to present to them. With that, the court will likely grant the petition, and your roommate will have no choice but to leave.
Ok, we already know that cleaning is important. But I bet, not all of us here know that cleaning before going on a vacation is also one of the important things you should do. Agree? For some, cleaning the house before going on a vacation is the least they do, since they just contain the excitement they feel going out to have a great and enjoyable day. And I’m sure you too can sometimes feel overwhelmed whenever we go somewhere for the first time.
Most of us here, if not all, only think and plan before and during the vacation. On what exciting things that they need to do for them to enjoy, or what food are they going to east, whether they going to eat in an elegant or just an affordable restaurant, or thinking and planning about where to stay. Well, if you are planning to go on a trip inPampanga, then there are actually a lot of places where you can stay. Of course, travelling not just in Pampanga but also other places that you never have been to is one of the things that excites us the most, right?
It is just normal for us to think and plan things before and during the vacation. But don’t you know that the transition back to reality after the vacation is going to be like a punishment for some people? You might also experience this kind of feeling, since whenever you go back from a great and enjoyable day, there are a lot of laundry to do, some cleaning to do, and/or some dishes to wash. For some, seeing these messes on their house is one of their nightmares. Of course, who would want that kind of scenarios?
Well, for some, if they are lucky, when they are still into the spirit of the vacation and can bear the mountain of task without too much frustration, then it might save some irritations from the mess that you see. However, if you are not lucky enough to have some high spirits after a tiring vacation, then good luck with the things that you need to do. And I’m sure you are not contended with a messy house, right?
Generally, this is one of the main reasons why you need to clean before going on to your vacation. Yes, there are still things you need to do such as washing the clothes that you brought back from the vacation, and/or the kitchen utensils that you have used that you need to wash. Well, at least, you don’t need to do a lot of things after going back to reality. If you are a kind of person who don’t want to experience stress after stress, then you better do the things such as cleaning the mess in your house ahead of time. That is also for you not to feel irritated whenever you see those kinds of things.
Basically, aside from the usual cleaning you do at home. You also need to make sure that you empty your refrigerator before you go. You have to make sure to clean out perishables from the fridge so you are not in going to be surprise for the molds you are going to notice whenever they are not taken care of. Moreover, you have to properly throw out the trash, especially when you know that there are certain trash that would smell after leaving it for a day. Of course, you don’t want to have a smelly home, right?
Moreover, before going out for a vacation, you also have to make sure that you wash your laundry to invite a fresher and cleaner bed after we get back from our weary travels. Of course, this is also one way to make the rest worthwhile.
Sure thing that there are a lot of advantages renters and homeowners have. Not to mention the comforts of their home; be it in the condo Bonifacio Global City or any other real estate, the fact that we have a secure home is one thing that we can be proud of. Although we might have these advantages, there are just times that we can’t avoid being pissed by our neighbors who just can’t get a hold of themselves, and/or even unwanted situations that try to mess up with us.
Generally, most renters and/or homeowners can’t escape with these kinds of situations, since we are not in control of the happenings of our surroundings. Yes, it is beyond our control. There are even some of us here prefer to move out to avoid unwanted events. However, we definitely can avoid them by following these simple yet effective tips when it comes to dealing it.
Your home has been infested with roaches and/or other pests.
Roaches and/or other pests that we see in our home is one of the common nightmares most renters and homeowners have. Of course, we don’t want to have these in our home. Basically, most pests can be found in your drains, in your kitchen cabinets and sometimes even on your bed.
Generally, if you have these pests in your home, perhaps, there are certain areas that are not properly cleaned. And having a dirty area of your home is one of the places most pests love to stay.
However, getting rid of these pests is already possible. You can use insecticides or any other cleaning tools to get rid of them. There are also DIY remedies such as boric acid for roaches and/or vinegar for flies.
Your neighbors are noisy, nosy, or worse
Who among you here have neighbors who have these kinds of personalities? I bet, most of us homeowners and renters experienced a dreadful nightmare when it comes to our neighbors. Of course, not all neighbors have these kinds of personalities. But there is just this one or two of your neighbors who you can’t understand them at all. They can be annoying and irritating when it comes to being noisy, nosy, or with their attitudes that you can’t even imagine.
Generally, as much as possible, stay away from them, especially when they start gossiping. You definitely don’t want to mingle and mess up with that kind of attitude. Moreover, avoid being too familiar with them. If you do, then you might regret it later on. Be friendly, but not to the extent that they are too familiar with you.
Plumbing issues occur
Plumbing issues is one of the hassles we usually experience at home. Of course, you definitely don’t want to experience having a smelly bathroom, or dirty kitchen sink. Basically, one of the reasons why there are some plumbing issues on your home is, perhaps, you try to flush a feminine product, diapers or paper towels. With that, it will definitely make the toilet stuck up.
When that happens, if you don’t know anything about how to fix it, contact a professional to fix plumbing issues. Fixing it on your own without proper knowledge about plumbing might worsen the damage. However, if you know how it works, then you better fix it right away to prevent worsening the damage.
You aren’t getting your deposit back
This is applicable for renters. Deposits are a huge expense for renters. Of course, paying it may not be to our benefit. Usually, most landlords will use your deposit to repair major damages on the property while you stay. However, they won’t particularly fix minor damages such as a tear on a carpet, or fixing or replacing appliances that have worn out over time.
Generally, you could potentially have grounds for a lawsuit if you think that your landlord did not give you the correct amount of your deposit back. And in order for you to pursue it, you should consult a lawyer to have a legal process of fixing how you can get your deposit back.
Your security and safety are in question
Basically, one of the things that most renters and homeowners see to it when they first moved into their new home is whether or not they are safe to stay. Of course, you definitely won’t compromise your safety. Right? When choosing the right place to live, you have to make sure that the security of the property is tight enough for you to feel safe.