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Parents’ Corner: 8 Ways to Support Your Child Going to College

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The transition from high school to college is a weird time for children. For one, it’s their first taste of adulthood. Selecting the educational institution they want to spend their four years is one of the significant decisions that can affect the course of their life. The second decision lies in the course they will take.

Though you might not get a say in these two things, it is still your duty as a parent to support them. Some parents get a condo in Pasig, so their child doesn’t have to spend hours on travel. Others accompany their kid while sitting on their admissions test in Manila. As a parent, these are the ways you can show you support your child’s decisions. Here’s how.

1. Express your enthusiasm over their choice

Your child will be faced with endless options starting from the college or university that he or she plans on attending. Understand that this is your child’s choice. Feel free to offer your insights and opinion if your child consults you but know that your child will be the one to make the final decision. The best you can do is to gently point out the things that your child will have to consider before making his or her choice. If your child is bent on a decision, then you should be happy for him or her. It shows his or her determination on pursuing the goal he or she set for herself/himself.

2. Research on different educational plans and institutions

Although the decisions should ultimately come from your child, you can help him make an informed one by researching with him. Learn as what you can about the environment and culture associated with a particular university so that your child is ready to be immersed in it. Also, you should look into different financial grants especially if you know that your child qualifies. A lot of college applicants aren’t aware of scholarships and college financial aids. You can save your child from student loans by ensuring you secure your source of finances.

3. Maintain communication

Whether your child will still be living with you, staying in a dormitory or you plan on getting a condo in Manila, you should maintain the communication lines open. Your child is sure to encounter a myriad of changes before coursework, and other requirements can become daunting. It’s vital that your child knows that he or she can go to you for anything. Regularly check on your child on how he or she is doing. Allow him or her to vent about his or her experiences.

4. Allow your child to practice independence

Be confident knowing that you raised a responsible child. Allow him or her to make decisions on how to live his or her life while in a dorm or a condo unit in Metro Manila. Try not to keep your child on a tight leash and learn to let go. Let him or her to enjoy this phase of his or her life. You should enjoy your new found freedom too.

5. Inspire him or her to join extracurricular activities

Volunteering, joining the student council, being on the debate club or learning to play an instrument are some of the things that improve your child’s college application paper. Your child may not have the ideal GPA in high school, but having activities on the side can boost your child’s confidence during admissions interviews. Even before he or she steps in college, he or she should have events on the side. You can inspire him or her to find her passion early on by joining different activities together. You can try out different sports, enroll in classes, or volunteer in your community. When children see that the person they admire are doing things they haven’t tried, then they are likely to do them as well.

6. Make progress based on their pace

Each person has a specific pace. Your child might be staring at the TV while looking chill when he or she still hasn’t finished filling out the forms. It might tempt you to nag them, but it wouldn’t help ease the pressure of getting the college of their dreams. Instead of nagging them, you should spend quality time with them. Invite him or her for a walk. Get iced coffee at his favorite cafe. Catch up. It doesn’t always have to be about their career options. You should also see how they are doing now and then.

7. Get a coach

Though your child might seem like he or she has under control, it can be the opposite. Most of the time, they are unsure of what they’re doing. They aren’t confident of their options. They are worried if they picked the wrong course. They are anxious about the looming deadline for college applications. Often, these things are out of your hands. Therefore, you should consider getting some help. Hiring a coach can help your child build confidence and feel more prepared to face what’s in store for them in college.

8. Discuss expectations and experiences but don’t poison them

Before letting your child free of your grasp, you must first have some heart-to-heart talk. It allows you to impart your expectations of your child’s performance. You can also use this to share the experiences you had when you were in college, but it doesn’t mean you should poison them. You shouldn’t fill their thoughts of outdated notions on what’s it like to be on campus, traditional college application process, and test taking.

The best thing you can do as their parent is to support their dreams. Allow your child to find their purpose and contribute to society. Though getting a degree is not always part of the vision, you should make them understand the difference between making decisions when you have achieved higher education over those that did not.

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Etiquette: Making Friends With The Neighbors

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Whether you’re in a new suburban neighborhood or recently moved in your new condo, you can feel more at home when you know the people than when you don’t. Staying aloof and keeping to yourself might work when you were a kid, but it won’t be the same once you turn into an adult. You have to get along with your neighbors to ensure you live in a peaceful community.

You might find it easy to get along with a bunch of people. Meanwhile, you might find some people in your community won’t warm up to so easily. Sometimes you have to conjure a few tricks from your sleeves to make them open up to you. If you have a hard time being friendly with the neighbors, here are ten things you can do to become their friend.

1. Be the first one to say hello

When new in a place, first impression matters. You should always be the one to wave and give a friendly smile. It doesn’t matter if you’re tired from carrying boxes. You should appear welcoming and open for small talk. It makes people think you’re friendly.

2. Schedule a time for exploring the community

You won’t meet people by staying indoors all the time. You also get a chance of catching up with others while walking their dogs, tending to their gardens or lounging in their patio. Take daily morning or evening walks to meet new friends. You can ask your neighbors about local restaurants, dog-friendly parks, and community events. Asking about garbage collection is schedule is another way to break the ice.

3. Go old-school

Try the traditional route and bring some gifts when you visit your neighbor. Some communities still offer housewarming gifts to new families in the neighborhood. If someone does bring you something, you should return the favor. You can bake a batch of cookies using your mom’s secret recipe. But if you don’t have a knack for baking, then you can opt for local pastries near Ardia Vermosa.

4. Give out compliments

Always be a giver. If offering some goodies is stretching it too far, then you should hand out compliments. Marveling at your neighbor’s new paint job, well-maintained lawn, or the design of their home is free. You can easily get at thumbs up when you are generous with compliments. The next time you bump into the couple next door, you should try commenting on how great their blooms are.

5. Exchange numbers

Giving your phone number or home landline is a sign of trust. It means you’re letting the person be part of your inner circle. It also means your placing your neighbor in the list of emergency contacts you have. It’s now easy to invite their family over the next time you plan to have a mini celebration. Most of all, you’ll know who to call once your pet gets out of your backyard.

6. Make plans

Improving your relationship with people doesn’t end. Talking to them now and then is great, but you have to go out and do activities eventually. Grabbing a cup of coffee or a few rounds of beer are some things you can do to connect with them. If you want to get to know the people on your block without having to invite them one by one, then you should set up a housewarming party. It’s fun, and it brings people together. It also helps you get to know the people in your neighborhood without feeling pressured about it.

7. Find out who’s nearby

If you’re relocating to a different community, you should look for a friendly face in the neighborhood. You can look into your social networks to find out who’s nearby. Your school’s alumni association, church group, and other organizations you belong are some of the places you can look for friends and associates who might be in the same neighborhood as you are.

8. Discover shared interests

Similar to other relationships in your life, there’s bound to be common interest that you and your neighbor both enjoy. It might be a passion for home decor, gardening, or triathlons. Whatever it is, you can use it to bond over and build your relationship. If they have kids the same age as yours, you can schedule a playdate. If not, you can always tag along to his or her weekly sessions at the gym or favorite nail salon.

9. Visit popular communal areas

There’s bound to be an area where your neighbors frequent. Some people spend their weekends at the clubhouse. Others set up a meeting point at the jogging trail. It can also be the tennis courts or the park near the city center. You should spend time in these places, so you could chance upon your neighbors. Bring a book to read, walk your dog, or take your family to strike a conversation with people you only see when you throw the trash.

10. Deliver mail personally

If you live in an apartment, there’s a chance their letter gets mixed up with yours. You should take advantage of this opportunity. Knock to their door and introduce yourself. It might seem logical to slip the mail under their door or leave their letter in the mailbox. But if your goal is to make some friends, then you should go ahead and deliver their mail personally.

Making friends with your neighbor is not as difficult as you think. As long as you don’t let your awkwardness and shyness get in the way, you’ll be fine. In time, you’ll learn to enjoy the company of your neighbors and the people around you.

Etiquette: Surviving a Party

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Each party has a specific setup. Some parties are laidback. Others are loud and raucous. The setup of the party depends on the environment. If you’re the type to be socially awkward or shy away from large groups of people, then you can be in a sticky spot during parties. You won’t be able to converse with other people if you aren’t comfortable in the situation. You also won’t be able to enjoy what the host serves on the table if you’re too shy to move.

Whether it’s a small gathering in a condo in Makati or a function near a hall in Sta. Mesa, you can follow the tips below to have a grand time. Social gatherings made for you to enjoy. Don’t worry if you don’t know how to act. These tips will let you know how to act at a party even when you are by yourself.

Introduce yourself to other people

The more you wait to talk to other people, the more you will get cold feet. When that happens, your confidence levels go down. It becomes harder to mingle with others. Once you get to the party, go around and start talking to people. Introduce yourself to those who don’t know you. A simple “Hey and nice to meet you” does the trick. You can continue the conversation by asking if they know other people or they have someone else with them. You can also ask if they know the host. Others will notice you’re friendly and social eventually.

Keep a friendly face.

Don’t just sulk and frown in a corner. No one wants to be in the company of a Debbie Downer. If you’re planning to be the light of the party, you should smile and open yourself to others. Greet other people and go around the area. If you’re feeling a bit down, you should immerse in a light conversation with other guests who are happy to be there. Hopefully, their jokes and good mood can rub on you. Also, part of being friendly is getting into a conversation with people who wish to talk to you. Some people might find you interesting. These people look forward to getting to know more about you so you should be sensitive to see if someone wishes to strike a conversation with you.

Don’t worry about other people.

Remember, everyone in the party is either enjoying the booze, free food, or the company of others. If you’re afraid that you’ll look like a jerk or loser, then you’re just wasting your time and energy. Most people in the party don’t care about what others are doing. In particular, no cares about what you plan to do. With that in mind, you should do whatever you were expecting before you got in the place. Talk to people, try out some snacks, and get plastered. But, these things are more fun when you do them with someone. Be sure to have someone with you first before anything else.

Observe proper etiquette.

Whatever you do, you must always observe proper etiquette. When someone talks to you, you should look at him or her in the eyes. Stand up straight and avoid slouching. Your body language should convey you are open to accepting other people in your space. When someone is talking with you, you should pay attention. It shows that you are genuine and deeply interested in what they are saying. Lastly, you should always remember the names of the people who are talking to you. You can mention their names a few times if you can’t remember a lot of names in a short amount of time.

Select a few people you would like to get to know.

After you talk with several people, you should pick those whose company you enjoy. You only have limited time and energy, so you must use it wisely. It’s best to expend them on the people you love. Try to get to know them better by spending most of your time with them. But in the process, you should not try to blow off other people who try to join the conversation. People are in a party to expand their network and meet someone new. Clamming up and pushing others away can make people think that you aren’t friendly.

Treat people how you want others to treat you

You should follow this rule everywhere you go. Always treat people how you want them to approach you. Talk to them how someone should talk to you. Others don’t want to associate themselves with a rude person. They also don’t want to spend time with someone who doesn’t see or treat them as an equal. If you don’t want other people to call out your rude behavior, then you should always be considerate of how you treat people and how they feel about it.

Of course, not everyone has the social energy to immerse themselves in the experience fully. If you find yourself tired or feeling drained, you should excuse yourself and step away from the scene. After recharging, go back to the party and continue spending time with your new found friends.

Here’s a List of Things You Should Add to Your Bucket List Now

 

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Everyone says life is short, but do you know what is shorter? Your teenage years, your twenties, thirties and so on. When you think of it, you only have ten years for each stage of life. It can be a stretch when you count it day by day. But in reality, it’s a phase you’ll get over in a few years.

Whatever age you are now, you should start building your bucket list. Your bucket list isn’t only for those with a death sentence. It’s also for people who have always been in their comfort zone. If you’re one of those people, then it’s time for you to step out of it. You should step up your game and live your life and not just watch by the sidelines.

The list below includes some of the activities you can try. You can pick only the ones you fancy and leave out the rest. Your bucket list is entirely up to you.n

Watch a horror flick on a weekday

Since The Nun is currently playing in theaters, why not head to Vertis North cinema to watch it? Be sure to catch it during the weekday since most people are at work or school. You’ll have the theater to yourself and to a couple of brave souls who picked the same day to watch it. You’ll get to experience fear in its full glory while bingeing on chocolates and sodas because there’s no one to tell you otherwise.

Learn to cook a family recipe

You can live on chicken nuggets, deep-fried frozen meat, and canned tuna forever, but it won’t be good for your health. You can develop cancer or some deadly disease you might only find out a few years down the road. Break your habit of fried and oven-toasted food by learning how to cook. You can start by perfecting the art of recreating your grandma’s casserole or your pop’s superb pasta. Whatever it is, ask your family to teach you how to do it before they are gone.

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You may have a degree, but it’s not an assurance you’ll land your dream job after you leave school. More often than not, your first job is something you don’t want to do for the rest of your life. Sometimes, it’s not what you expect. If you’re a fresh grad and currently looking into employment opportunities, you should try retail or service jobs. These industries won’t bring in big bucks, but they’ll teach you a lot about people and how to work with them.

Find a cause and volunteer

It feels good to help people and fight for a purpose. Don’t spend all your time binge watching shows, playing video games or daydreaming about things you can’t change. Instead, use your time to find a cause you love. You can help cancer patients make their dreams come true. You can plant trees to save mountains. You can spend time at an animal shelter. It doesn’t matter what it is as long as you enjoy what you do and it pushes you to volunteer without hesitation.

List the things you discovered about yourself

Every day is a new beginning. It’s an opportunity for you to do something different from yesterday. The experiences you will have today makes you a different person tomorrow. Therefore, you should list the things you discover about yourself. Having a list is an excellent way to track your changes and how much you’ve grown in a short amount of time. You can review the list weekly or monthly to see if there are significant changes in your self.

Move to a place far from home

Think of your home as your comfort zone. The goal is to get out of the zone to see how you’ll respond in different situations. Staying at home won’t allow you to expand your roots. Therefore, it’s time you consider moving out of your hometown. You should find a place that helps you grow and succeed as a person. You won’t know which area is the right place for you if you don’t venture far from the bird’s nest.

Travel to a place you don’t understand the language

Often, language is the least of your worries. You don’t have to study a new language because everyone speaks English, right? Unfortunately, not everyone is fortunate to go to school and learn English. Some poor communities don’t even have the means to educate themselves on the local culture. You should visit a place that doesn’t speak your language. You’ll be forced to learn the local dialect and communicate with people through other means.

Be the first person to say sorry

You should start acknowledging your faults and owning up to your mistakes. Saying sorry is the same as giving credit. It benefits everyone. It makes you and the other person feel good. When you apologize, you can quickly move past the argument and sticky situation. Last but the least, saying sorry means you’re letting go of the anger that holds you back.

These are the things you should add to your bucket list. Most people neglect to do these little things, but they are often those that leave the most impact. If you wish to enrich your life, you should start creating your bucket list. Go over each item while you still have time. It’ll leave with stories to tell your future grandchildren.

8 Tips For Condo Living With Children

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Living with children is fun. Their noise can bring life to a new yet empty condo in the city. However, they like running around and touching different stuff in the room. Most of all, they end up making a mess of things even if they did not mean to do it.

Thus, you must know how to live with your children in a condo. If you plan to get two bedroom condominium at Ayala Vertis North, it is not enough to know how to decorate your home. You must know how to make a childproof area. Below are ten tips you can follow for a harmonious condo living with children.

1. Use a dark upholstered couch.

Small spaces constantly use their furniture. Thus, you must use a dark colored sofa to fill your living room. The living room is a busy area as your friends occasionally drop by, children eat and spill drinks, and you and your partner eat dinner and catch up.

With all these activities, the couch can easily get worn. Buy a sofa made of durable material. Canvas, leather, and velvet are some decorative textiles that can take the pressure of daily use. These textiles in dark color are perfect for concealing stains and making the sofa stand out in a small space.

2. Be smart about room assignment.

The largest room at home must be assigned to the kids especially if they have a lot of stuff. Your kids can share the master bedroom while you and your partner can stay in another room. Your children will have more space to play in if they have a room with a wide floor area. Their toys do not have to occupy the place once they realize they have the space they need.

When your stuff and the children’s stuff are in one space, clean up is easier and faster than before. You to switch or transfer from room to room so you can gather all the stuff and place them in their proper storages.

3. Declutter ruthlessly.

A small space can easily get cluttered if you do not purge once in a while. To keep your home in order, you must throw things away. Try not to keep all your children’s artwork. It is not a great idea to store too much paper and other materials in your attic.

If you find it challenging to declutter ruthlessly, you can create a few rules for yourself. You can keep a thing or two per month. Stash only your most special pieces. If you have a keepsake box, go through it every year and reevaluate which are important to you and your family.

4. Lend and donate.

If you do not want to throw away your stuff, you can loan it to a friend or donate it to charity and other organizations that accept donations in kind. Give away the books, clothing, and toys your children outgrew. They no longer need these things.

It is also time to give the infant car seat if your baby is now a full-grown child. Even if you plan to have another baby, it is not a reason for you to stuff your things in the attic. Lend it to a friend with a baby or a neighbor who needs more than you need it.

5. Consider your limitations.

If your space is limited, do not waste it by acquiring the things the things that are not necessary. Do not purchase furniture and fixtures especially if they are not a need. Do not hoard several pairs of shoes if you have a small storage space.

Take note of you and your home’s limitations. If you cannot afford a lot of stuff, then do not purchase the items you will only use once. Spend more time and resources on investment pieces. That way, you maximize your home’s size and space.

6. Opt for chill birthday parties.

Do not buy several items for your child’s celebration. They do not mind the decorations. Instead of spending time and effort on filling your home, use them to focus on the small things such as gifts and food.

Small spaces like condos also are not noise resistant. Avoid ruckus and sounds reaching next-door neighbors by inviting few people as possible. It will minimize the noise from your home as well as the number of guests who will contribute to the chatter.

7. Ensure each item has a storage space.

An organized home has a place and storage for everything. It does not matter how large or small your home is. It stays organized as long as each item has part of a storage solution.

Your things must be in a basket, container, or shelf that serves as its home. It makes clean up much easier during moments of decluttering. It also avoids stacking up or misplacing items during moments of laziness. If there is no room for containers, then you need to get rid of something.

8. Use the outdoor space.

If there’s no space indoors, you can use your balcony. You can use it to store outdoor gear and boots to keep them from clogging your limited indoor space. Utilizing every nook and cranny of your home keeps clutter out of sight.

Life in a condo with children is exciting. Condo living can be stressful at times due to clutter and noise, but you begin to enjoy your home life once you learn to deal with both. Since a condo has limited space, it is best for you to learn how to deal with living in a small area. That way, you can enjoy your life with your children at Vertis North.

 

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The Best Evening Routine To Fall Asleep Quickly

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The National Heart, Lung, and Blood Institute states that sleep is vital to health. Getting enough and high-quality sleep protects your mental and physical health, quality of life, and safety. It is because lack of sleep incurs damages in the brain and other internal organs. It can also affect how you get along with others, learn, react, and think.

Sleep is needed for the brain to function well. Your family at Avida Towers Sola and co-workers will immediately notice if you lack sleep. Some people quickly fall asleep while others are not so fortunate in that department. They may have insomnia, a sleep disorder or a mental condition that keeps them awake.

You can use the sleep routine below if you’re having difficulties falling asleep. The routine comes from Dr. Stephanie Estima’s version of the routine. It is not an exact science, but it’s a start to better sleeping habits.

1. Do a reflection of your day.

Reflecting on your day helps you identify the things you did right helps you celebrate your success. It enables you to analyze what you did right. You can do this by asking the fantastic thing that happened to you today. Analyze the things you learned that day. That way, you negate the negative thoughts and shift to a positive mindset.

2. Use Tetris as meditation.

Tetris promotes the growth of gray matter in the brain. It supports your brain’s adaptability and flexibility which combats several brain diseases. If you wish to improve your working memory, spatial awareness, and depth perception.

3. Make your to-do list before heading to bed.

The goal is to feel empowered at the end of the day. Making your to-do list before you sleep saves the energy of the next day for critical tasks. It lightens your load and helps your brain process what you planned overnight.

When you give time to your brain to process the problems overnight, your subconscious mind works on it and presents a new perspective or way of solving it.

4. Keep calm and let go of frustration.

Do not be mad at yourself for not falling asleep. Frustration will only increase your anxiety and release hormones that will prevent you from falling asleep. It is better to keep yourself calm than become frustrated and angry with yourself.

Meditate and relax. Step away from any exciting or agitating activity two hours from your sleeping time. That way, your body becomes relaxed, and you set your mind to sleep.

5. Step away from the bed until you feel sleepy.

Frame your mind only to use the bed for sleeping. Doing other activities while lying or sitting on the bed tells your brain it’s alright to use it as a working area. It negates its purpose of providing relaxation and sleep.

6. Keep electronic devices away from the room.

Electronic devices like smartphones and laptops emit radiation and blue light. Radiation may cause cells in the blood vessel walls to shrink according to the study by the Radiation and Nuclear Safety Authority in Finland. Meanwhile, exposure to blue light in dark rooms disrupts your circadian rhythm.

The brightness of the light has a similar effect to the brain as the sun. Thus, your body will have a difficult time falling asleep.

7. Get alone time.

You need to relax and keep calm. Isolating yourself and getting some alone time will help you focus on yourself. It can also train your mindset to prioritize and prepare for the next day.

A nightly routine develops a good sleeping ritual. It prepares you for the next day. It gives you a good night’s sleep which will improve the quality of your day.

 

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15 Must-Do To Be Successful in Your Career

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There is no shortcut to success. There is also no exact definition of success. Each person has a concept of success towards various aspects of their life. Career is one aspect of being important to adults. It is closely tied to money, fame, business, and time. People juggle these elements to reach the goal concerning the career aspect of their life.

Of course, success in career is always an individual journey. Progress is up to each individual. How each deals with the daily work-related situation at Vertis results in a future action. Thus, the key to being successful in your career depends on the activities and choices you take.

There are some things you must go through to reach your career goals in an office in Quezon City. Below is a list of must-do you must undergo to be a success in the career aspect of your life.

1. Reach out to inspiring yet intimidating people.

It’s time to call the person who has something to offer you. Don’t put off reaching out to people who can help you improve and become a better version of yourself. They can help unlock your abilities and offer opportunities which were ones out of reach.

2. Get out of bed earlier than usual.

You must your sleeping habits, so you can wake up before your usual waking time. Rising early gives you more time to accomplish things within the day. Early risers have more time to prepare breakfast and eat nutritious meals while basking in the sun. The morning is the time to be exercise and be proactive by planning activities for the rest of the day or the week.

3. Give more than you get.

Return the act of kindness. Give back to people who help you rise. Help your mentors and people who pick you up along the way. Good karma follows those who practice it.

4. Move towards where you want to be.

Though it’s essential to look towards the future, you must always go to the path leading you to what you want. Your position or promotion may be comfortable and enough for the moment or the next three years. However, it’s not the same as being in the industry you to be. Always grind towards the thing you wish to achieve.

5. Accept accountability for actions especially when things go wrong.

Accountability is empowering. It’s a form of acceptance which encourages positive and negative outcome. It’s the ingredient for self-correction as it pushes you to take responsibility for tasks and your goals. Hence, it helps you set realistic expectations and build trust in yourself.

6. Deliver results within unreasonable deadlines.

The corporate world is cutthroat. It’s like an entirely different world when in the arena. It’s full of people with the same ambition and drive as you. Several people are also vying for your position at work whether it’s an entry-level position or senior management. Since you are part of an organization, you must do your best to deliver results within deadlines.

7. Try over and over even in the face of failure.

Quitting is never the answer. Even if you look like an idiot in front of everyone, it won’t matter if your mind is set on a goal. Prioritizing your dream must weigh more than your appearance and how society thinks of you. Continue to prove yourself otherwise.

8. Look beyond the “facts.”

Change is the only permanent thing in the world, and not even facts can argue with that. When someone presents an argument, challenge it. Look into the case. Back up your version of facts to verify which proves a solid case. Don’t settle until your satisfied.

9. Choose results over excuses.

Strive to work hard and be radical. Always aim for results as they are physical representations of your effort. Prove naysayers wrong by providing more than you are capable. If there’s a block along the way, try not to give in to excuses. Don’t rely on your negative inner voice to save you from the stressful situation. Face them by immersing yourself in work.

10. Find humility in the lack of knowledge.

Not having the answers or not knowing the next set of steps to take will make look different from others. You may look like a fool while searching for answers you don’t have. At this time, it’s best to be humble, accept the current struggle, and find faith in the journey.

11. Invest in yourself.

Improve your strength, build your skill set and expand your knowledge about the industry, current events, and relevant information about the job. Take classes, go to the gym, buy supplies in the shops at Vertis North and immerse in a project. Take time to discover other passion helping you improve as a person. That way, you can effectively add value to any organization.

12. Stand up and fight for what you believe.

Getting in an organization can kill your spirit. The competitive environment can strip you away from your dreams and kill your ambition. Always stick to your values and belief system even when a culture already exists in the organization. It will make you stand out. Be authentic, and discern what’s right from what’s acceptable.

13. Endure the uncomfortable feelings.

The time will come when you feel safe and insecure because you have to play it safe. It may be uncomfortable, but dwelling on it teaches you how to carve a path of your own, rise from the adversity, and challenge your self to come up with better and viable solutions.

14. Stop wasting time and energy.

Complaining is a time-waster. It’s also an energy zapper. It’s a negative activity and utterly unproductive which is the opposite of what you want to achieve. To succeed, you must exercise control and cut out the pursuits not contributing to growth or value to your career.

15. Practice gratitude.

Make it a habit to be grateful for each day. A new workday brings an opportunity to learn something new on the job, explore an idea and contribute to a community with individuals with the same goals and vision. Gratitude empowers the mind as it turns on the positive side of the brain. When you practice finding the good and be thankful for it, you begin to enjoy the gifts of life and the fruits of your labor.

It is part of man’s DNA to strive for greatness. It is also part of each person to dream and have ambition. However, greatness only comes after hard work and a few challenges. If you want a successful career, you must go and do these fifteen things to move mountains and reach for the stars.

 

5 Pieces of Furniture to Add in a Teen Condo Bedroom

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Teenagers of today are design-conscious and up-to-date with the latest trends. Whether its fashion, graphic design or interior decorating, they back up their knowledge through research. They may act as if they know everything there is to know, but they are living in childhood and adulthood. Some of them aren’t ready to give up their toys or collectibles from the past. As their parent or guardian, you can help them transform their bedroom into a polished and sophisticated sleeping quarter at Arbor Lanes.

Teen bedrooms must include features specific to their age without sacrificing design. It must be vibrant and full of energy. It must allow movement while providing an escape from the demands of the world. A functional bedroom must have the basics – bed, study desk, bookshelf, vanity, and storage units. Your teen’s bedroom becomes ten times better when it has a few pieces of furniture that would contribute to its look. You can add the five pieces of furniture below to improve the style of your teen’s room.

1. Armchair/Bean Bags/Couch

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Other than the chair for the desk, there must be additional places for sitting. Teenage years is the decade when friends and classmates come over to hang out. These children have limited cash and a strict curfew. Thus, they would instead crash in your child’s room or chill in the family room. When that happens, you’ll need an extra couch or couple of bean bags to keep your guests comfy.

If you want to add a pair of bean bags in your teen’s room, you must select a chair with removable and washable cover. The bean bag will last longer when you can throw its cover in the wash. Washing does a better job at cleaning than spot cleaning. You must also select a chair with the right filling. Polystyrene bead fill is light but breaks over time. It’s best to look for an eco-fill that is safe and non-carcinogenic. The bean bag must also be big enough to support the user and provide a comfortable seating position.

Beanbags are perfect in a laidback bedroom theme. Teens who wish to achieve a chic and elegant bedroom can opt for armchairs. Armchairs have different varieties and styles. There are curved armrests and boxy seating. It also uses various fabrics and patterns for upholstery. An armchair with a neutral cover is versatile but avoid using white if you want minimal upkeep. Armchairs and bean bags will work on small spaces and extensive floor areas with heavy pieces of furniture. If there’s extra space in the room, you can go for a couch. Sofa beds are great for slumber parties or group school work the teens need to rush.

2. Dresser

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When talking about dressers, it’s critical to know about design, quality, finish, and construction. Keep in mind you can customize its pulls and handles. Focus on the material, the number of its drawers and size as well as material. There are different types of wood used in making chests, and they differ in price points. High-quality dressers have a shiny finish, wood-on-wood glides, and center-rail support. Again, measure the width, height, and depth it will accommodate.

3. Full-length Mirror

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Since teens are conscious of their appearance, a full-length mirror can reassure if their outfit is up to par. The mirror provides a breath of fresh air into your space. It reflects light so small rooms will benefit from the extra shine and brightness. Shape, size, and style are the most important things to look into when buying a mirror.

The shape of the mirror can dictate the mood of the room and accentuate the features of the area. A long horizontal mirror emphasizes width while a tall vertical reflector accentuates height. Boxy shapes give a sense of order while rounded and curved frames soften the visual environment and add a whimsical look. A carved or ornate frame is best for traditional bedroom themes. Still, it is an excellent contrast to modern elements of design. Simple frames and those made of unusual materials suit casual bedroom while whimsical frames and distressed looks complement country and whimsical rooms.

4. Ottoman

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An ottoman is an understated piece of furniture. It is a padded upholstered seat. It resembles a bench without the arms. It can be square or round and used as stools or footrest. Homeowners often neglect the advantage of having one in the bedroom. A square-shaped ottoman enables you to extend the size of your coach. Meanwhile, round and rectangular ottomans are great coffee tables and centerpieces.

You can also purchase ottomans depending on their function. Cocktail and storage ottomans are elevating the room’s overall appearance.

5. Side Table

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If you are looking for pieces of furniture to fill the sides of your bed, you can add a pair of side tables. It’s crucial to think of the height of the item next to it. The table must be equal or below the furniture next to it. It creates a seamless visual flow and makes it easy to reach items on the table. Similar to armchairs, mirrors, and ottomans, side tables also come in several shapes and sizes. You can use your side table to contrast the existing furniture in the area to offset harsh lines, soft textures, or bold colors.

Some side tables have drawers and open shelves for extra storage. Having these features will depend on how you plan to use it.

Armchairs, bean bags, dresser, full-length mirror, ottomans, and side tables are few of the pieces of furniture to add in a teen condo bedroom. A teen’s bedroom is similar to a self-contained apartment. They don’t mind its size as long as it has everything they need. They have space to invite their friends over, finish their homework, and sleep. The right style, shape, size, and color will help reflect their personality and complete the design of their room.

 

Six Simple Engagement Ideas to Celebrate Love

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Love grows and expands. It is the only thing that you give away but never diminishes. Once you fall and accept the person as they are, you are entirely captivated by the person. The time when you want to enter the next level of your relationship.

Long-term relationships past the dating stage are ready for the next step, marriage. But before they go hunting for rings in shops at Vertis North. Their partner must get to the proposal. Asking the question is dreadful as there is no assurance of any affirmation. Also, they want the best for their partner, so they want everything to go off without a hitch.

A simple engagement often completes the moment. Gathering family and a close-knit circle of friend to witness the once-in-a-lifetime moment completes the occasion. But if you still want to execute a unique proposal for your loved one, try one the ideas below.

1. The Surprise Homecoming

If your partner is a jet-setter because of her job, you can use this opportunity to give her a warm welcome at the airport. The next time he or she comes home from a long trip, you can propose on the spot upon embarkment. You can hold up a huge handwritten sign saying “Will you marry me?” or you can meet your partner halfway to get on your knee and hold out the ring box. If you wish to go with the sign, asking help from family members and friends to hold the signs will place the last word – “me” – in your hands.

2. Fine Dining

A lot of people propose in public places. Most end up restaurants for its comfort. You have the meal and the luxurious setting in one place. What more can you ask?

If you wish to propose in a restaurant, inform the establishment beforehand. Know if they have arrangements regarding wedding proposals. That way, you can plan the flow of your date night. You can also ask them for advice on the best way to have the engagement. You can have your proposal written on a plate as the waiter delivers the ring with the dessert or entree.

3. Completing the Puzzle

Want something unique? Create a customized jigsaw puzzle! Write the words on the pieces and allow your partner solve the picture. You can create the puzzle pieces through CreateJigsawPuzzles, Piczzle, Printer Studio, and, Portrait Puzzles.

4. Going Back in Time

Take your sweetie to the place your story began. It can be the theme park you had your first date or the restaurant you spent your first anniversary. Drop some lines during an intimate moment. It can go something like this, “We’ve had an amazing journey these past years. I think we are ready to take the next step in our journey. I hope you pick me as your partner in life.” Try to be as smooth as possible. To make it seem natural, add some lines or humor that brings out your personality.

5. Skywriting

Superman isn’t hiding behind the clouds in the sky. They are digital skywriting planes high above the ground doing advertising and writing messages. Take your engagement off the surface of the Earth by setting up a personal note to an aerial advertising company. It’s one way of showing your love to the world. Tying a banner with the proposal and flying the plane over your town is a cool way to spread the news.

6. Watching Your Silver Screen Moment

It doesn’t matter whether you are the creative type or not. You can come up with a montage or compiled video clips with the someone’s help. Recording your travel moments, holidays, and other activities while narrating how they are special to you will bring tears to your partner’s eyes. You can play the short movie at home before starting your favorite TV show. You can also show it to your family and friends as a surprise during a luncheon or a dinner. If you want to go big, you may show it at a local movie theater. Have it running before the usual Vertis North cinema schedule.

Marriage proposals, without extra effort and elaborate motions, are unforgettable. They are one of life’s milestones as you accept your partner to be part of your remaining life on Earth. Though acts of grandeur are unnecessary, paying attention to what your partner needs show how your love and affection. These six simple proposals are sure to get the affirmation you wish to hear.

Etiquette: Unsolicited Advice from Life’s Experts

Scratch that. Nobody is an expert on the facts of life. There are only people with experiences. These people are around long enough to know the difference between what works and what doesn’t. They know how to deal with people and work with the bumps along the way. Most of all, they are self-assured. They know enough to help the lost and young on the questions they had when they were at the same age.

When advice is put into action, it becomes a part of etiquette. Instilling manners into your system does not only benefit yourself. It also helps the community and the society once everyone gets going with the trend. You get to score points with your neighbors at your condo in Nuvali. You live a long life as you fill yourself with confidence and love.

However, a twenty-something may still be unaware of how to accomplish these things. Most of them recently got their diplomas, on their first job or serious relationship. Some of them think they have it all under control when they absolutely have no idea what to do. They face problems head-on and apply solutions that only smack them in the face. Stumbles will always be part of life, but they become fewer as one learns how to face the hurdles.

Experienced Humans: Fifty-Somethings

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Below are some bits of advice from experienced humans, in this case, fifty-somethings that will help you through life. These people already spent half their life on Earth. Hence, they don’t mess around when talking about life.

Actively work on identifying what job will make you feel like you don’t work in a 9-to-5 setup. Pursue it with all the energy you can manage. Nothing says demise than daily routine. Clocking in and out at the office, sending and replying to e-mails, and accomplishing the same ad-hoc tasks is a surefire way to kill the spirit. Instead, ignite the passion inside of you. Dance, draw, paint, read, sing, write, or travel if that’s what you wish to do. You can immerse in various pursuits throughout your lifetime. Doing them brings you closer to what works for you.

No one wins or loses in the game of life. It’s the journey that counts. The material wealth you have – cash, automobiles, electronics, and other luxury items – have the same value as the generic ones. A Chanel bag is still a bag. A Bentley is still a car. It all boils down to perspective. Switching to newer and better versions of the former will result in the same way it was before after six months.

Consequently, do not put stuff above people when making priority lists. They are never as important as the people you love. Cherish the memories and time you have with each person in your life. Family and friends are the ones there for you at a time of crisis. Not your iPhone.

Major life decisions are for you to decide. Other people exist to encourage and provide support. They must not be the one running the show. Thus, don’t make decisions to please others. Live for yourself. Remember, there is no one else to support you and your dreams but you.

If you don’t have confidence, fake it. Pretend as if you do. Going through the motions will trick your brain into believing. Eventually, you will gain it, and everything will fall into place.

These five pieces of advice target the self. Change starts within a person the spreads to others once they are sure of themselves. Twenty-somethings are in a period of insecurity due to the unstable footing and lack of knowledge in the world. Having a guide, mentor or someone who is wise beyond their years are the people who give out nuggets of wisdom.